Bram.

well, his name is bram. he's a friend. we had a little chat by couple hours ago. he said something :

<Bram> people my become ugly as they turn old, they may also have a memory problem. they may have a eye problem to see things clearly.
<Bram> but one thing for sure, when he/she love you; she will never forget you nor cannot see you when you are sad or happy.
<Bram> beauty on the body and face can be 'consume' by anyone. but the beauty of the heart is only for the loves one.
<Bram> COURAGE = standing for what you believe in, regardless of the odds against you, and the pressure that tears your resistance.
<Bram> DETERMINATION = stopping at nothing, and doing what's in your hear you know is right.
<Bram> CONFIDENCE = holding your head high, and being the best you know you can be when life seems to fall apart at your feet, facing each difficulty with confidence that time will bring you better tomorrow and never giving up.

ah. i just love these words.  thank you Bram, wherever you are :p